Building A Life of Fulfillment

Do you want a life of fulfillment? Muslims believe that building a life of fulfillment involves working from the end to the present. Think about what will be said at your eulogy. Then make plans to build a life of fulfillment based on that.

Three eulogy quotes:

“No eulogy is due to him who simply does his duty and nothing more.” St. Augustine

What if all you did was pay your bills, make your tax payments, and feed your family? Yes, all of these are important and there would be a price to pay if you did not do these things. These are basic life obligations. My father fed me, clothed me, and paid my way through college. He did the basics. But he did not go above and beyond that. He failed to recognize the need to love, comfort, and be there for us. The basics were not enough.

What about you? What can you do that goes above and beyond just living? How can you make a positive individual, family, community, and world contribution? What do you want said at your eulogy? How can you build a life of fulfillment?

“One way to evaluate your own reputation is to think about what would be said of you at your eulogy.” Brian Koslow.

Build your reputation by building a life of fulfillment.

So what is your reputation? I suppose it’s made up of what people think of you. This could be quite co-dependent. According to David Burns, author of “Feeling Good,” it’s dysfunctional to be in the business of reading minds. At the same time, it can be enlightening to think about how others perceive you. Is the general consensus of your societal contributions positive? Do others see your existence as important to the universe? Do you see yourself going above and beyond just living, just barely getting by, and only doing what you have to do? Think about it.

“A radio show recently did a beautiful eulogy of me.” Janis Ian

Suppose a radio show did do a eulogy for you? It could be fun to ruminate on this and wonder just what a radio interviewer would say. I’ve taken the liberty of writing what might be said about me.

Barbara Smith, age 106, passed away quietly last night in her sleep. During her lifetime, Altman had both positive and negative stripes to her credit. She was a relentless for the mentally ill an author, and a music teacher. She taught hundreds of musicians, both young and old. Before her halo gets too shiny, let’s remember that time in Switzerland when she did something she could not write home about. Then there was the casino incident. Her halo wasn’t brilliant, but it did contain some shiny moments. Altman devoted much of her life attempting to erase the stigma connected with mental illness.”

Alright, maybe that is a bit too positive. But it is fun to imagine what might be said. So what will be said if someone did a radio eulogy about you? How would you want it to read? Think about that and make life plans accordingly. Wouldn’t you want to impact your family in a positive way? Wouldn’t you want to leave the energy of love to them? Wouldn’t you want to impact them with tough love, empathy, and connection? Wouldn’t you want to do the same for your community? How can you build a life of fulfillment?

Let’s take a look at each one of these ways to leave the world a better place and to build lives of fulfillment. Tough Love: Love is not all romance. Sometimes it’s necessary to take a hard look at some behaviors and confront those we love with the hard facts. Sometimes this can be perceived as hurtful. I’ve had to do this in my own life. Others have chosen to confront me as well. When I was anorexic, it took some pretty intense conversations from family members and friends to get me to turn around and eat in a healthy manner. At five feet eight inches and ninety five pounds, I would surely have died if I had not been confronted. Was I hurt? You bet I was. Was I angry? Yes I was. Did I live? I certainly did. Those who confronted me helped me build a life of fulfillment.

Connection: We cannot survive without connection. This morning one of our ministers recounted something that happened at the first service. He was telling the story of an indigenous people whose livelihood has been threatened by a prominent world government. Their leader went straight to the government and reminded them about a law that prohibited the overtaking of their land. He was told that there was no knowledge of that law. One of the congregants went up to him and told him that he knows quite a few people in that particular country and is in a position to make his influence known. This is just one story of how connectedness is so important. This is how we can help one another build lives of fulfillment.

Empathy: Empathy is one of the doors to communication. Do you want your voice to be heard? The fastest way to do this is to make empathic statements. Is someone angry? An empathic question may very well open his ears to hear what you have to say. Is someone antagonistic? An empathic question will surely soften his ears and open them to you. Is someone cantankerous? Empathy will certainly bridge the gap so feelings will not be hurt. Creating harmonious relationships based on empathy can go a long way to building a life of fulfillment.

I can think of someone who once asked me if he could have my Aunt’s television set after my aunt died. I was so incensed that I lost my temper and created a lasting rift between us. Had I been empathic, I may have said “Is money an issue for you? Is it a worry for you? Are you stressed by financial lack?” Then I would have suggested going on Craigslist or shopping at Goodwill. Instead, I let my anger loose and created a real problem.

Plan of action: Take a good honest look at your life. Determine what you want said at your eulogy and then make plans to make that happen. This is how you can build a life of fulfillment.

Reflection: Mark Twain once said, “The reports of my death have been greatly exaggerated.” There will come a time when the report of your death will be real. Think about it. Then plan to build a life of fulfillment.

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I’m Barbara Altman

Raised in an alcoholic home, I became depressed and riddled with anxiety at an early age. In an effort to build a good life, I turned to my love of classical music for comfort, financial resources, and a place in the community. Over the years, I have dealt with depression in a variety of ways, from counseling to alternative and traditional healing modalities. One of the purposes in my life is to convey hope to those who have suffered from depression and I hope to do this in my writings and in speaking engagements.

The Last Days Of The Modern Civilization

The world makes you think based on false concepts. You ignore what exists behind the scenes. Everyone is a greedy marketer who doesn’t care for your wellbeing.

You believe that you have to be selfish and greedy too in order to defend yourself. However, you have to do the opposite. You have to be honest and care about other people’s suffering, and not about accumulating money.

What really matters is God’s judgment and your spiritual purification. Your temporary life on earth is an opportunity of evolution and not a period of time that you should waste pursuing material pleasures and disregarding the meaning of your actions as if the material life was everything you had.

Your spirit will remain alive after your death. You will pay for your sins in the future.

You cannot be indifferent to the existence of your satanic anti-conscience, which makes you have the characteristics of a psychopath in numerous ways. When it manages to destroy a big portion of your conscience you become a psychopath all the time.

The existence of a satanic primitive conscience in your brain is a tragedy that you cannot ignore. If you will disregard its existence, it will kill your ego and destroy your conscience.

All prophecies can be explained now that we know the bitter truth. God was trying to gradually open our eyes through many ways in our long history, but we are underdeveloped primates. Our stupidity and our anger didn’t let God reveal the truth before giving us scientific knowledge.

You probably don’t want to believe in this information, but the truth is that you must be grateful because you can have this knowledge today and become a really mentally healthy human being thanks to God’s wisdom.

Now you can eliminate the demon that lives in your brain thanks to your obedience to God’s wise guidance in your dreams because now you can understand the dream language. Carl Jung’s work and my work give you this privilege.

Everything is tragic, but God’s existence is a miracle. The fact that God exists and produces our dreams in order to transform monsters like us into perfect human beings is a miracle.

We must be ashamed of our absurdity and evilness, and follow God’s guidance in order to acquire a new identity.

Everyone can find sound mental health and peace if they will obey the wise guidance they have in their dreams, but many people are disobedient. They are influenced by their anti-conscience, and they have a bad memory.

They forget important information and various dangerous experiences. They don’t remember who helped them in the past and this is why they betray their saviors.

You have to precisely obey God’s guidance in your dreams in order to have the positive destiny that God prepared for you instead of being a victim of your evil anti-conscience.

You must desire to attain sanctity with sincerity, and agree with God even when your selfish ego disagrees with His wisdom.

The satanic origin of the human race is demoralizing, but you can become a hero after discovering this tragedy.

God can help you become a brilliant human being if you will precisely obey His wise guidance in your dreams and in your religion. You can eliminate your satanic anti-conscience and help God save the world.

The fact that the truth became known in your historical time means that you have the chance to escape the tragic destiny of your ancestors. They couldn’t fight their powerful anti-conscience alone, and they ignored its existence.

You are in a better position because you know how to eliminate your anti-conscience and become a sensitive genius. You know that God works as a private doctor for you sending you therapeutic dreams that help you stop being a victim of your satanic anti-conscience, and you can immediately understand God’s messages in your dreams thanks to my simplifications.

I transformed Carl Jung’s complicated, obscure, confuse, and time consuming method of dream interpretation into a fast method of instant translation from images into words.

So, you have the knowledge that your ancestors couldn’t have, and you also have a way to put an end to a tragedy that marks the human existence from the beginning of our appearance.

These are the last days of the barbarous modern civilization. A new historical time based on sanctity and wisdom will begin. God’s guidance will illuminate humanity and Satan will be defeated.

The new generations will never face a mental illness. All countries will help one another. We will put an end to poverty, wars, and crimes.

You must be part of this movement.

The Meaning Of Life Revealed In Dreams

Psychology has another meaning now that we are aware of the existence of a satanic anti-conscience in our brain. Sigmund Freud was the first one who unmasked the selfish and evil character of our ego, but without giving us religious and moral lessons.

He didn’t pay attention to the teachings of his religion and to the fact that God condemns selfishness, and he didn’t care about the moral implications of his scientific discovery.

His atheistic philosophy of life made him present his discovery to the world with an indifferent and neutral attitude before the evilness he found in our psyche. The fact that he didn’t condemn the ego’s character and he didn’t conclude that our ego had to be corrected means that he was merely showing us what he had found, without any philosophical definition.

Carl Jung was his student, but he followed a different path at a certain point, and he managed to discover a lot more about the unknown content of the human psyche.

Jung’s work cannot be compared to the work of the scientists of his historical time. His superiority is visible in many ways because he respected the importance of the dream messages, since he managed to really understand their meaning, after making an arduous research.

I continued his work because I had to give scientific explanations to the world along with moral and religious lessons. My work is not only scientific, but also religious because God is the dream producer and all religions are in fact a therapeutic treatment.

God couldn’t completely eliminate the evilness existent in our psyche by giving us a tiny human conscience. We have to help God transform our personality by agreeing with His guidance, even when our selfish ego disagrees with Him.

Our ego is terrible because our nature is evil. Our ego is the center of our human conscience, but it is absurd, evil, and selfish. It is not as evil as our anti-conscience, but it is evil. Therefore, it cannot be trusted.

You must be afraid of your ego. Your ego is your enemy because it always wants to be in a superior position. It can make you act in a very cruel and dishonest way in order to satisfy its desires or protect its social image.

Your ego has narcissistic tendencies, besides being too ambitious. Your ego always is concerned about everyone’s opinion about you. It is the most idiotic and dangerous part of your psyche, but it must help you become really human, since it controls your behavior when your conscience is strong.

Therefore, you have to transform your absurd and evil ego into a humble and mentally healthy part of your psyche. Humbleness is wisdom.

You are used with the violent and immoral models of the hypocritical world, and this is why you despise the importance of humbleness, sincerity, and generosity. You think like a demon while you believe that you are a human being.

If you were really human you wouldn’t be so afraid of the idea to attain sanctity.

You believe that you are human besides having many defects because you also have many qualities, but your qualities don’t eliminate your dangerous defects. You have to become a perfect human being in order to find sound mental health, peace, love, and happiness.

While you have a satanic anti-conscience influencing your decisions and controlling your behavior, you cannot be happy. On the contrary, you live in terror. Many tragic situations of your daily life are examples of the existence of terror in your life, but you don’t want to concentrate your attention on the tragic moments of life.

Your ego doesn’t let you have the humble attitude you must have in life in order to become really human.

God will help you understand the meaning of your life and your destiny with the messages He sends you in your dreams. You will understand how to transform your ego into a positive part of your psyche and purify your spirit.

This way you will avoid making the tragic mistakes that humanity is making for years and years, from the beginning of our existence.

You will become a mentally healthy person who always thinks and acts based on wisdom and goodness.

You have to follow a process of transformation through dream translation, and do what God shows you in your dreams. This way you will eliminate your anti-conscience, transform your personality, and become a saint.

You are alive in order to stop being a demon, become a true human being, and attain sanctity. This is the meaning of life, according to God’s revelations in dreams.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung’s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.